3 signs that a man is not interested
You’ve met a man, and you start to appreciate him, but you don’t know if this interest is mutual. You have doubts, there are no clear signs that he likes you, or would like to know you better. If you can’t find explicits signs that a man is attracted to you, you can then search for signs that he is not.
Obviously you would like to discover that the interest is mutual but if it is not, you’d better find out as soon as possible. Knowing this will allow you to move on. How would you know if your interest in this man is mutual or not? How would you understand that this man is not interested in you?
Here are my 3 favorite signs that a man isn’t interested in a women. This are must-see signs that will save you precious time!
Your messages remain unanswered
Every time you send him a message, the response is delayed or never arriving. He doesn’t bother to reply to you or just answer with boring minimalistic texts. However, you know he reads his messages because his phone is with him all day long (and any decent messaging app will tell it to you).
Unfortunately, there is a good chance that he does not want to reply to your messages or that he is forgetting which is not really a good sign either.
Rather, it is a sign of indifference and disinterest.
Whether it is in relation to unanswered messages or for a suggested activity, you have the feeling that you are always the one who take initiatives and take the first step. He doesn’t try to hear from you and doesn’t ask to see you.
The message is very clear about his disinterest. If you only send him one or two messages a week, you can’t be said to be harassing him, and yet he won’t bounce back.
It shows that he doesn’t think about you and therefore doesn’t care about you.
No future
This man has passed first steps and you have succeeded to meet him regularly. You are now wondering if a beautiful story is possible.
But your exchanges remain superficial and platonic. He is cordial but does not reveal himself and, at the same time, does not seek to know more about you. Your discussions are mostly taking place in the present, and you are never mentioning plans for the future.
A man who makes long-term plans with you is a good indication that he is genuinely interested in you.
Conversely, if he never has a straightforward answer to your suggestions for futur events (like holidays, buying ticket for a gig in a few monthes…), or if he always avoids the subject, this may be a sign that he is not ready to imagine the futur with you.
Not afraid about competition
Whether it’s to you during your infrequent conversations or to others when you overhear his discussions with his friends, he talks about other women. You have never heard him talking about you, besides, you have seen him in the company of other women.
This man might like you as a friend, but unfortunately not for anything else. This is a clear sign that we should not seek to go further.
Similarly, if the fact you mention other men you might be interested in, doesn’t seem to worry him, then that’s not a very good sign. Or rather, it is a very good sign that he is not interested in you.
So, is he The Man ?
With that in head, I hope you can now see more clearly if something is possible with that man or not. (and I really hope it is !)
My last advice :
If a man behavior looks like those mentioned above, so just run away !
Hoping to have helped you to see a little more clearly.
Dr. FeelGood
